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How do you tell the person I'm interested that I'm into BDSM?
I have been thinking about writing this for a while. Now is as good as any. The people in the normal regular society has a distaste on BDSM, among other fetish in this board.
So I'm interested in this friend, how do I tell her that I'm into BDSM? Because once I disclosed it, we may no longer be friends? |
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Re: How do you tell the person I'm interested that I'm into BDSM?
I've thought about this a lot as well and I think that except in very special circumstances, you can't just reveal it. You have to start out treating the relationship as if it's totally vanilla. You have to begin a regular sexual relationship.
Once you're already intimate it's quite easy to convince people to experiment. If she enjoys it, your BDSM activities will probably evolve naturally until they become more extreme, to the point that it will satisfy whatever your taste is (within reason that is. It would be very hard to convince an everyday girl to get into scat games for example). I think that's pretty much the only way to do it. It has to be a slow buildup. Either that or you have to meet people from environments where you know they'll be into it, or just come out and say what you're into before you get into a relationship. In this case though, since you already know this girl and you're afraid of damaging your friendship, that wouldn't be a good idea. |
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Re: How do you tell the person I'm interested that I'm into BDSM?
Yeah, meeting people within our circle in local alternative sexual lifestyle club should work. I vaguely recall there is one every Saturday.
Inside our circle, as you probably know, we have sub-groups, 1 group doesn't necessary like the other kind of kink, but that''s a small issue To be fair, the movie 50 shades of grey does break the barrier a lot, it introduces BDSM to the general public, make things easier, eventhough that kind of slave contract in the movie never happen the way the movie portrays it but do you think that for people who's into BDAM, it's usually people in the BDSM sex club. How often does an average girl like BDSM? Even Dakota Johnson doesn't like it, and she's the star of the BDSM movie Last edited by Jack Sparrow; 05-15-2016 at 10:01 AM. |
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